Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself;
and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Put in modern English, husbands are to love their wives, and wives to respect their husbands.
Though both husband and wife need to be loved by the other, it is the wife who specially feels the need for love.
Conversely, though both wife and husband need to be respected by the other, it is the husband who specially feels the need for respect.